Do you feel the pressure to be perfect at work? In your career, do you value excellence over connection? If you answered “yes,” you’re like most of us. But one of the hardest pills to swallow is the fact that connection will get you further in your career than your efforts to avoid failure. <\/p>\n
Leaders and professionals alike are realizing that authenticity is the true differentiator. The people who know how to show up, listen, and build real trust are the ones who cut through the noise and make career-altering connections.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s the focus of this week\u2019s PRO VOICE podcast episode\u2014a conversation about communication, community, and why perfection is often the biggest barrier to connection.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/p>\n Every meaningful connection starts with a shift away from autopilot small talk and toward genuine curiosity.<\/p>\n As Dwight Spencer, a community strategy consultant and creative business coach, explains, \u201cWhenever you go into a new setting, the default reflex is to say, ‘So, what do you do?’ and that is the absolute worst question that you can ask in those situations.”<\/p>\n Some better questions to ask:<\/strong><\/p>\n What are you interested in?What lights you up?What fills your days?What are you excited about?What\u2019s something you\u2019re working on that you\u2019re proud of?\u2019<\/p>\n For Americans, our identity is often tied to our jobs, so breaking the habit of asking the “usual” questions can be difficult. But it’s worth it. When you shift your language, you invite people to show you who they are, not just what they do. True connection begins the moment curiosity replaces conformity.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n When Jerry Rice, an employee engagement and global communications strategist, reflects on his experience leading through the COVID-19 pandemic, his insight is clear: communication builds trust, especially when things fall apart.<\/p>\n \u201cWe took crisis and turned it into opportunity. We allowed our CEO to become sort of the voice of fact and reason in a sea of misinformation through open and authentic communication. We did weekly videos out to the community. And then we wanted to hear back from everybody to see how they were doing throughout what was a really, really difficult time for a lot of people.\u201d<\/p>\n His experience is a reminder that disruption can actually accelerate innovation if<\/em> leaders stay visible and open when uncertainty hits.<\/strong><\/p>\n When communication feels uncomfortable, it\u2019s usually because you\u2019re doing it right. Connection requires courage.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n For Rhonda Simpson, a leadership coach and organizational engagement leader, authenticity starts with a simple but powerful habit. \u201cI like to take a moment and ask random people, ‘How are you doing?’ Generally, people will say, ‘I’m doing fine.’ But then I like to follow it up with, “Okay, but how are you really doing?”<\/p>\n When she asks a second time with more of a genuine curiosity, she says it’s amazing the kinds of real answers she gets from others, and that this practice has helped her connect with people on the fly, especially during busy times when leadership teams often don’t think to pause and respond with curiosity. <\/span><\/p>\n That second question opens the door to honesty, and it\u2019s often where real connection begins. It’s a small act of empathy that signals to others that you’re actually listening, and you care enough to ask again.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Connection doesn\u2019t happen by accident. It happens through intentional systems\u2014and sometimes, technology helps.<\/p>\n Jerry explains how his organization used AI to \u201cempower managers with communication tools and FAQs\u201d so they could handle questions and build consistency during times of change.Rhonda draws from Bren\u00e9 Brown\u2019s research on vulnerability and belonging, reminding us that people \u201cwant to feel seen, heard, and valued.\u201dAnd Dwight references Supercommunicators<\/em> by Charles Duhigg\u2014a reminder that \u201cthe best conversations are built on mutual understanding, not performance.\u201d<\/p>\n Technology gives us reach, but it can also create distance.<\/p>\n Rhonda points out that many digital networks \u201cbuild surface-level relationships.\u201d In contrast, \u201csmaller, purpose-driven communities\u201d create space for trust to grow (like ours at Work It DAILY<\/a>!).<\/strong><\/p>\n Connection means being present<\/em> where it counts. When leaders use tools to make empathy easier, they scale connection without losing authenticity.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Authenticity starts where perfection ends. It takes courage to show up and be seen, especially in a professional setting. But those who lead with presence\u2014and imperfection\u2014are the ones who stand out. Be yourself. Listen to others. Own your mistakes and grow through them. At the end of the day, people connect with what\u2019s real\u2014not what\u2019s perfect. <\/p>\n Take Your Leadership Further With PRO VOICE<\/strong><\/p>\n The insights shared here are just a preview of what\u2019s happening inside PRO VOICE<\/a><\/strong>\u2014Work It DAILY\u2019s leadership platform for building executive visibility and influence online.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re ready to amplify your leadership brand, sharpen your communication strategy, and grow your professional reach, PRO VOICE<\/strong> is your next step.<\/p>\n Join today<\/a> and start building your voice, your presence, and your authentic leadership power.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Do you feel the pressure to be perfect at work? In your career, do you value excellence over connection? If you answered “yes,” you’re like most of us. But one of the hardest pills to swallow is the fact that connection will get you further in your career than your efforts to avoid failure. 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